There is a place inside, that connects learning with understanding. An unseen voice of quiet authority putting it all together until the Ah- Ha moment, the light bulb, the knowing. That is the connection. The moment your mind reaches out from both ends and makes a bridge. Seeking the answer, and then hearing the answer. Never give up learning!! It is the only way to understanding!
If you want something you don’t know how to get, perhaps you have not had enough examples to glean understanding from. You will need to go find some, and that is easier these days than it has ever been. With the abundance of recourses available to teach you anything, in everything we have been able to imagine, you can learn a little something, or a lot of something.
You need to be ready to build bridges along the path you have never traveled. Whether it is finally following your own dream, or perhaps heading into a new phase of life. Unavoidable as aging is, we must learn a new way forward every few years because that is how fast things really change. How do we get from here to there? That is the most repetitive question we will ask ourselves throughout life.
Seek the wisdom of those who are where you want to be, and who are doing it well, and no one else! They are at the center of the labyrinth you are trying to get through. Listen to their stories of success, and trials of failures. Listen until you recognize what they are talking about. There will be things you can transform into your own tools of success.
Assess your progress fairly. list what you recognize still needs to be done, and give yourself credit for knowing that! Knowing the next step, no matter how small, means there is a direction, a way forward, an improvement to be made. A connection to complete.